So, divorce is behind you. You’re on a budget, staring at the same old furniture, and those pictures on the wall? They might still be there, but everything else feels different. Here’s something I’ve learned: moving a sofa or hanging a new photo might just be the therapy you didn’t know you needed.
Hello, new beginnings!
If you didn’t walk away with a few million after the settlement, don’t worry, you can still transform your home into a space that feels fresh, light, and totally you.
Let’s be real: have you ever noticed how just rearranging the furniture or doing a proper decluttering can completely change the feel of a room? It’s like an instant mood booster. And right now, that’s exactly what you need. Every quick win counts, especially when you’re working on rebuilding your life after divorce.
When Hello! magazine asked me to share some advice on how to redesign your home after a breakup, I knew I had to start with this: you don’t need to spend a fortune to turn your space into a sanctuary. Whether you’re staying in your current home or moving somewhere new, now’s the perfect time to make it a reflection of who you are now. A new chapter deserves a new home vibe, and it doesn’t have to break the bank.
New beginnings photoshoot
One of the most empowering things I did was organise a ‘new beginnings’ photoshoot. And let me tell you, this wasn’t just about snapping some pretty pictures to hang up—it was about capturing this monumental moment in our lives. The incredibly talented Saskia Albers from Portray Your Story was behind the camera, and she made the experience unforgettable. The whole family got involved, and it became one of those magical days where we laughed, stumbled over unpacked boxes, and created memories that we’ll treasure forever. Now, instead of the past staring back at me from the walls, I’ve got these gorgeous, vibrant photos that remind me daily of how far we’ve come. It’s a visual reminder of our strength, our journey, and the fresh chapter we’re writing together.
With three boys in tow, I knew turning the whole house into a super-feminine paradise wasn’t going to fly. But my bedroom? That’s my sanctuary. I went for vintage charm—a French crystal chandelier here, a few quirky finds there—and the pièce de résistance: Farrow & Ball’s Sulking Room Pink on one wall. That pink? It’s pure joy in a paint tin. Every time I walk into that room, I smile. It’s my space, my little corner of the world, and it’s a daily reminder that I’m reclaiming my life.
The best part? You don’t need a huge budget or major renovations to make your space feel new. Start small. Even tiny changes—like new throw cushions, a bold paint choice, or simply moving the furniture—can transform the energy of a room. And if you let your kids pitch in with their ideas, it becomes a family project. This isn’t about creating a perfect, Instagram-worthy home. It’s about crafting a space that feels like yours, a place where your new family can thrive.
Are you ready?
So if you’re ready to flip the script and embrace your new beginning, start with your space. You’d be amazed at how a few thoughtful changes can shift not just your home, but your entire outlook on the future. And remember, those beautiful new photos on the wall? They’re not just there for decoration—they’re your daily reminder of how far you’ve come, the strength you’ve found, and the new life you’re building every single day.
For more inspiration, you can check out the full article in Hello! here.
Feeling inspired to create a fresh start? If you’re looking for more support and guidance as you rebuild your life post-divorce, join my group programme. We kick off at the end of this month, setting you up to finish 2024 stronger than ever. Send me an email with the subject ‘more info’ and I’ll share everything you need to know!