by Sai | Dec 15, 2025 | Uncategorized
You’re afraid of losing yourself through Christmas. The pressure is everywhere. Whether you’re navigating your first holiday season separated, still in the marriage but knowing it’s over, or divorce finalised but everyone’s watching to see how... 
by Sai | Dec 20, 2024 | Uncategorized
Dear beloved,It’s just not the same, is it?I hear this a lot-and it’s true. It’s not the same. Birthdays, Christmas, any special occasion-they feel different now. And sometimes, especially in the early days, it’s just hard.This time of year,... 
by BtKT | Sep 18, 2024 | Uncategorized
So, divorce is behind you. You’re on a budget, staring at the same old furniture, and those pictures on the wall? They might still be there, but everything else feels different. Here’s something I’ve learned: moving a sofa or hanging a new photo might just be the... 
by BtKT | Aug 20, 2024 | Uncategorized
If you’re finding post-divorce life tough—whether it’s dealing with your ex, struggling with co-parenting, or just trying to adapt—know this: it’s normal. You’re not failing, and you’re definitely not alone. The truth? It’s not easy. It’s messy, unfair, and hard... 
by BtKT | Aug 5, 2024 | Uncategorized
Let me share a bit of my story. I’m in my late 40s, a British Bangladeshi, single parent and a mum to three teenage boys. My own divorce was a journey packed with unexpected lessons. As a Muslim woman in a British Asian community, I was terrified that divorce... 
by BtKT | Mar 21, 2024 | Uncategorized
In the whirlwind that is divorce, where the clamour of ‘should’ and ‘must-dos’ threaten to sweep you off your feet, there lies a pivotal, yet often overlooked, sanctuary: THE PAUSE. Whether you’re on the brink of this life-altering decision or finding your...